Getting stuck in logic where there is no logic is a waste of time. When you keep expecting people to behave rationally, you can lose years waiting for a structure that is not there
The problem is not always that the explanation has not yet been found. Sometimes there is no coherent explanation behind the behaviour you are trying to decode
Recognising the absence of logic is also a form of clarity. It frees attention from the endless attempt to repair a pattern that was never built to hold together
