The same event can call forth support in one person, criticism in another, and indifference in a third. The difference is not only in the event but in the inner lens through which it is received
When difficulties repeat, people often search outside themselves for another system, teacher, or explanation. Yet the more useful question may be: what part of my inner structure is this situation reflecting?
The question is not always who is to blame or what someone should have given. Ask instead where the pattern comes from and what in you continues to meet the world in this way
There is no need to keep running from one borrowed experience to another. Turn attention inward, not as an escape from life, but to understand the source from which your way of living grows
